in the moment

IMG_6706.JPGfor a few minutes this morning, i sat outside.  i made my coffee, and when i went to let the dogs out for the eighth time, i went with them.  i felt the cold salt air perking up my senses, i watched a lone seagull make figure eights in the grey sky, and i listened to the icy waves crashing half a mile away.  i took a single picture of the sky.

i tried not to think about work or my bank account or moving.  and i succeeded, for the most part.  i didn’t check instagram or emails or youtube.  i just sat.  i sipped my coffee, i cuddled the dogs, and i just sat there, in the moment, for a little while.

good morning, everyone.


to the future, with the past

IMG_3202.JPGthe past few months have been tumultuous to say the least.  while life is truly amazing and i don’t have anything to complain about, i can’t help feeling a little bit lost and a lot bit stuck.  i don’t share too many details about my living and work situations on my blog, but maybe i should share more about myself with my lovely readers, since you are after all here to read my words.

i grew up coming to the east coast every summer for the whole summer since i was very very young.  this place has felt as much, if not more, like home to me as my real home in the midwest.  when i graduated college and came back to work another summer in this place, i didn’t expect to stay much longer after the summer ended.  but somehow i was able to get a job here that was pretty perfect at the time, and i was able to settle here for a little while.  part of the magic of this situation has been that i am able to live in my parents’ house, which makes my life very easy indeed.  and while this was great for the first few months, you might imagine that at 23 going on 24 living at home with my parents can be frustrating and somewhat degrading.  i hate to sound like an ingrate, when really i have loved being at home with my parents, but it’s just not what i want for myself at this time in my life.  i want to create a home for myself, rely on myself, take care of myself.  i want to do it for myself.

all of this being said, i have been at quite the turning point since probably august.  i’m ready to move on, but am having a hard time doing so.  partly because of my guilt for leaving my parents and for wanting more for myself, partly because i know that my boss will struggle when i leave, partly because i just don’t know what the fuck i want to do or where i want to be.  for most, this is kind of a dream situation.  i’m not committed to anyone or anything, and can do whatever i can dream of.  but for me, someone deeply devoted to my family and their expectations, i’m struggling more than a little bit.

how exactly do we decide what we want to do with our lives?  often we fall into something, and we either never leave or it shows us what else we would rather be doing.  for me, i know where i want to work, but i don’t know what i want to do.  i know what i want my home to look like, but i don’t know where that home is.  if i could run away to california and never look back, i absolutely 100% would, but i know that that is just not in the cards for me.

i guess what i’m saying is that i’m lost.  i’m sad and confused and excited and nervous.  i’m feeling all those growing pains that i felt when i was ready to go away to college but didn’t know where i was going to go or what i was going to study there.  but what i do know is this: i need to finish things up here, pack up my belongings, and hit the road.  and maybe i just need to see where that road will lead me, and take it from there.


i had intended for this post to be another of my “monthly goals” series, but clearly we took a little turn here!  i really hope that i don’t sound whiny or annoying here, but it can be so helpful to just spill the contents of your mind and let it lie for at least a little bit.  if anyone has any advice for me, or for others that might be feeling the same way, please send it along.  it is so greatly appreciated.  and again, thank you for reading and supporting and following me along on this crazy little journey that i call my life.

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the lesson

Screen Shot 2016-09-01 at 7.40.55 PMtoday is a fresh start.  i am taking last night’s new moon and solar eclipse as my sign to start over.  it is the job of my sign to initiate change.

“earthy virgo works the alchemical process in the matters of the physical realm.  the symbology of virgo as the pure virgin separating wheat from chaff applies not only to the fussy mundane details of every day life, but also the broader ritualistic purification of our spiritual life expressed in physical form.  the mantra or intention here is HEAL THYSELF” // viva combusta

as we cross into the month of september, we fully enter virgo season, the harvest season.  we are preparing for a new cycle.  the new moon solar eclipse that occurred this morning coincides with the new month, and we feel the changing of seasons and the leaving behind of something significant.  let it go.  let yourself heal.  that is what the stars are telling us.  everything is aligned to give you a fresh start, and that is magical.

keep what is useful.  lose what isn’t.

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